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Does it matter who says ‘I love you’ first?

Yes – it surely does!

It matters who speaks first, it matters who calls first and it matters who says “I love you” first.

And this will depend on whether you’ve chosen to be the yin feminine energy or the yang masculine energy in the relationship.

If you’ve chosen to be the yin energy then it works better if he speaks first, he calls first and he says “I love you” first.

If you’ve chosen to be the yang energy then it works best if you speak first, you call first and you say “I love you” first. For example, if you’re a woman with predominantly masculine energy and you’re taking the lead with your yin energy man, it’s fine for you to say that you love him first.

But I do want to make it clear that the actions of love speak louder than words.

If he hasn’t said “I love you” but he consistently makes time to speak with you, to be with you, and follows through on the plans he makes with you, it’s a great sign…

Until next time… Be open to love.